Ok felt like posting this.

Haha.

In a relationship, I can use these items to describe.

Positive:

N pole of magnet : S pole of magnet

Magnet : Magnetic object

Electromagnet : Magnetic object

Negative:

N pole of magnet : N pole of magnet

Magnet: Non-magnetic object

Switched-off electromagnet: Magnetic object

The one I want to talk about are the negative ones.

The first one needs no explanation.

But the 2nd one is quite common I would say.

Where one likes another but its unrequited.

The 3rd one, is hard to describe.

It is like the other party is ok,not bad, etc.

But somehow, you just dont have the feeling.

You need the electricity to switch you on.

Thats the hard part, finding it.

You could try spending time to develop the"electricity"

Somehow.

Ok I know very vague oh well.

Haha.